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A few days ago, Xiaojiu received an emotional complaint from a netizen in the background:
The second month we were together, one day he suddenly asked me if I liked to wear stockings and high heels, and I said I basically didn't wear them, so if I liked them, I could try them at home.
After a week, he actually bought stockings and heels online and said he wanted to see me wear them. I thought about the little couple's love affair, and agreed. Then he took pictures of me, said my legs fit, and told me to wear more stockings in the future.
Why are guys so obsessed with stockings, is this normal?
I think it's a good idea to take a look at this.
Is it a psychological perversion for men to be obsessed with stockings? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're looking for. The first time I saw it, I was able to get it right.
I. Stockings, originally designed for men
In modern times, when the word "stockings" is mentioned, many people may associate it with women wearing stockings, but in fact, in the past, stockings were designed for men.
In the 17th century, the famous "Sun King" Louis XIV wore a set of white stockings, which led the European fashion scene at the time. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see the film, and I was able to see the film.
When women took over from men, it started with the invention of the world's first hand-knitting machine in England, and stockings went from royalty to the masses, from small, handmade mass production to machine-made mass production.
So the European noblewomen wore stockings, and the men stopped wearing them themselves, and they became synonymous with "sexy women".
Two, why are many men fascinated by stockings?
In modern times, stockings have evolved into a symbol of sexiness and seduction, and some men have become "stocking stuffers". The reason for this is that it is a psychological perversion. The reason for this is that there are 2 reasons.
1. The influence of movies and TV shows
With the large number of stockings in some movies and TV shows, the allure of stockings has been magnified and even labeled as pornography.
The word "sexy", "beautiful", "uniform" and so on are always inevitable on the internet, and stockings have become synonymous with sexiness and pornography at some point.
2. Visual impact
The most curvaceous parts of a woman's body are concentrated in the chest, buttocks and legs, and the legs are the largest and most intuitive part of the body, so the visual impact of the legs is very direct.
White, straight, slender legs already give people a lot of imagination, and with stockings on, the legs are even more polished and delicate, also reminiscent of shiny, soft skin, arousing men's sexual excitement.
This mechanism of sexual arousal is similar to "foot fetish", associating legs with stockings, increasing sexual pleasure through the kissing and stroking of feet and legs, and the visual impact of stockings and shoes.
But stockings are essentially an everyday item of clothing; girls may wear them to hide leg imperfections and to modify the shape of their legs; in suit etiquette, they also indicate politeness and formality. And in winter, stockings are only worn to protect against the cold and frost, so women should be viewed in the right light when it comes to wearing stockings.
3. If there are 2 types of behavior, please abstain
The so-called "stocking stuffers" are often manifested as fetishes such as socks or feet, which are actually fetishes.
Fetishism is the use of inanimate objects (fetish objects) as a preferred way to arouse sexual arousal, that is, to feel a sense of sexual satisfaction with a specific object other than a reproductive organ and not directly related to sexual activity.
There are three broad categories according to the object that produces the symbolic effect:
The first category is non-genital body parts, such as hands, feet, hair, secretions, excretions, odors, etc.;
the second category is inanimate objects, such as gloves, shoes, stockings, aprons, underwear, etc.;
the third category is behavioral attitudes: flogging, tyranny, exhibitionism, voyeurism etc.
Most fetishes are associated with impaired psychosexual development in childhood, which may be caused by poor educational environment or qualitative factors in childhood. The fetish is not a pathology from a medical point of view, but it is considered a mental disorder if it causes great distress or negatively affects the person's life.
And for some extreme fetishes, some undesirable behaviors may be committed -
One is stealing. Fetishists experience pleasure in fetish objects that can lead to sexual arousal or even orgasm, so they will steal and collect women's objects by various means, even going so far as to achieve sexual The fetishist is a person who has a fetish for objects that lead to sexual excitement and even orgasm.
Second, some fetishists have a fetish for the fingers, toes, and hair of the female body, and will fondle women's hair in crowded public places, or even cut it off for their collections.
The treatment of fetishism is tricky, and there is no specific medicine for it, but for some patients with severe cases, it is necessary to start psychological correction as early as possible and seek medical attention in time to prevent patients from causing pain to themselves and their families, and possibly even breaking the law.
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